You have to be comfortable alone. You don't have to try to act cool or be a try hard; just be loose. Help someone. It could be her, or it could be someone else in the room. Approach tons of girls on a consistent basis(respectually without asking creepy questions). If you see a girl whom you find attractive, go and talk to her (doesn't matter what time it is). Avoid being afraid to fail.
Remember, fear of rejection is extremely irrational. If you see a beautifulgirl, go and talk to her. Avoid giving yourself time to make excuses. When you see a gorgeous girl, don't make excuses like 'she's probably in a relationship', 'she is on her phone', 'she is jogging', or 'man, I look so bad'. Keep having fun. Be yourself to the extreme. Network.
The more people you meet, the bigger pool of people you'll have to choose from. Take care of your physical appearance. Practice genuinely complimenting girls. Be a conversationalist. Don't use “canned material”, “nuclear attraction” routines, or other social robotics. Make her laugh. Girls love people who have a good sense of humor, and the key to having a good sense of humor is to be lighthearted, and unabashedly yourself. Flirt. Keep all your friendships slightly flirty to avoid falling into the friend zone.
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