Y. Dawne, Content Blogger, Diploma in Journalism, Amsterdam, Netherlands
Answered Feb 07, 2019
The kind of men who are bad in bed vary. If he's not interested in a woman's comfort and pleasure and just using a woman's body as if it's simply there for his disposal, he's not a good man. Without some tenderness, sex becomes more business transaction than intimate encounter. There's also performance anxiety. Men can be tired, upset or not in the mood, but if the man is only game for getting you off, and doesn't want you to reciprocate, it's a red flag that shouldn't be ignored and could even indicate a medical problem.
A man can be bad in bed in he pressures the woman to do something or forces her without her permission. Bad bedroom etiquette or skills are one thing, but a man who makes a woman feel insecure or uncomfortable when you're having sex with him is another. Whether he's too aggressive, disrespectful or chauvinistic, he has forgotten this simple fact: having sex with their partner is a privilege. The woman should make sure he knows that or the relationship isn't worth being in.