How often do the two of you talk?

My crush is now my husband, and we have been together for eight years. When we first met and began courting, we talked every day. I always brag that we have spoken every day for the last eight years. That is how I knew I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life.

Thinking back to middle and high school crushes, I didn't talk to them as often. They may have sent a Good Morning or Goodnight text, but it wasn't a constant or daily conversation. We would talk more in school than during the summertime when school was out.

If this is about a crush, then I do not talk to my crush often. We do not have the same classes so I only see him when I pass by him from time to time. I make it a point to pass by his classroom sometimes when I want to check if he has gone to school. My crush has some issues and he is not that driven to finish his education.

It makes me feel that I want to help him out but my mind tells me that there is nothing that I can do for him. We have talked twice about a school project that had to be done by different sections but we have not talked since then. I just find more details about him through the gossip that other people say about him.