How can I tell my husband that I'm pregnant without hurting him (if he's not ready to have kids)?

How you tell your husband you’re pregnant depends on what you expect his reaction will be. If you expect he will be thrilled and excited, make it a big surprise. You could buy him a baby onesie with a saying on it like “I Love Daddy”. You could buy him a box of bubble gum cigars (or real cigars) to hand out to his friends and co-workers.

If you expect he will be anxious or worried when you tell him you’re pregnant, pick a time when you know you will have enough time to talk without being interrupted and when you don’t have anything else important to do. This will allow you to have a serious conversation